Dear Loved Ones #3 – Honouring Your ‘Yes’ and ‘No’

She comes in many forms. She’s older and lives alone. She volunteers her time to many causes, always taking care of others. Perhaps she’s part of a religious community; perhaps she takes care of stray cats. Sadly, she’s in the midst of cancer treatment and getting really tired. Her many friends have offered to take her to the appointments, but she has stubbornly refused. Today she is so weak she can hardly stand up, and needs to get to the hospital for a transfusion. In a flash of frustration and resentment, she thinks to herself “Where are my friends now?!! No one cares about me. I’ll handle this myself!!” Read More

“Dear Loved Ones” #1 – Setting the Expectations

This is the first blog addressing the issues that arise between people who have a cancer diagnosis and their loved ones (family and friends, work colleagues and acquaintances). My hope is the advice and stories you’ll read here will help you have more harmonious and fulfilling relationships with the most important people in your lives. Watch the video: Ask for What You Want https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fdnutVzHzNk Read More

The very first #BeccaToldMeTo Random Act of Kindness By Dr. Rob Rutledge

Long before her brain tumour had recurred and was dubbed ‘terminal’ Becca was already inspiring Random Acts of Kindness. In the midst of a massive snowstorm in 2015, Becca was receiving daily radiation treatments. She was admitted to the Children’s Hospital in Halifax, suffering from uncontrolled nausea and vomiting. The… Read More

What we can learn from Remarkable Cancer Survivors

Dr. Kelly Turner, PhD, has written an excellent book entitled ‘Radical Remissions’ about the attitudes and actions of people who have had undergone a spontaneous remission after being told they had ‘incurable’ cancer. The Harvard undergrad got her PhD at UC Berkley interviewing nearly 100 of these remarkableRead More

Susan Wener at TEDx Montreal

In November, 2016, I spoke at TEDx Montreal about how the  things we tell ourselves have the capacity to influence and change our lives. It’s so important that we remember that life is not about what happens to us. What we choose to do with what happens to us will… Read More